Love never fails. People do. Hate never succeeds. People can. In life, the most critical thing that one faces is dealing with people and situations. Although, it is agreed that nobody can ever master to win all people and have every situation under control it is nevertheless possible that by a proper understanding and training one can come out unscathed in life, much to everyone's liking and interest.
Most relationships fail because one or more sides show contempt, lack of interest, care or such other things. Marriages fail, companies go bankrupt and workplace teams go down under all because in most cases there is, lack of respect and coordination. In personal relationships love is mutual liking and admiration, trust and appreciation of one another's existence while in professional setups it has more to do with respect for each others' work ethics, values, abilities and passion for excellence.
If you help people with their problems, give positive strokes, don't harbour ill-will and jealousy you can surely go a long way in establishing rapport and goodwill, be it the personal or professional space. Your love can be for younger or older person, same or opposite sex, similar or different background and for any mutual or exclusive purpose. If you have honesty and integrity in a relationship it will show. You cannot hide love, just like you can't hide hate.
If you have a passion for your work, care for the young ones, concern for the old and weak and compassion for the suffering or for anything of value, these are elements that prove you have love. Love and rather genuine love makes you a good person. You will soon find yourself to be a kind, benevolent and friendly individual whom everyone wants in his or her life.
On the other hand, if you tend to show negative feelings of rudeness, jealousy, non-cooperation, vanity you will soon end up as a bitter person and fail in life because God rewards only humility and friendliness while your bitterness is making you just the opposite. Bitterness and hate in relationships cause people to be mistrusting and uncomfortable thereby leading to non-attainment of mutual goals, the happiness and satisfaction surrounding a nice relationship.
Young men and women, a lot of them teenagers too just jump into relationships without having any clear idea of a man-woman relationship thinking it is their love for their mate while in reality, it is just sexual lust and as a result, they get disillusioned with life and have regrets. You have to cultivate love before you can harvest its fruits. Love is an emotion, a feeling that lingers for anyone or anything, not just your partner.
If you love something you will not flounder an opportunity to give you the strength to harvest success. It will help you overlook or correct shortcomings and not bicker them. Bitterness, on the other hand never succeeds at that letting happen. God wants his creations to love and live amicably while hate aims just the opposite. Aiming for peace and happiness is easy if we lovingly learn to accept and adjust than just give in out of resentment and helplessness and be hateful.
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